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The reason for all separations is no personal growth. 👇
Whenever you're ready, here are two ways I can guide you through separation: 1. Download the Separation survival guide:...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Dating after separation/divorce? Read this 👇
Three things I’ve learned as a newly single man: 1. Taking it slow I don't want to jump into another serious relationship too soon. I’m...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Going through separation? Being unaware of your emotions is like driving 100kph blindfolded.
Many men would rather do that then talking about their emotions. Here's how to talk about emotions in a masculine way. 👇 Everyone has...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Separation means losing more than just your partner.
It's also means losing access to kids, changing homes and effecting your work.👇 This leads to a loss of EXTERNAL identity such as a...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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If you read, connect, follow, like, comment and share my stuff - Thank you!
I've met so many amazing people this year. 👇 With some I chatted. With some I zoomed. With some I podcasted. With some I had a coffee....
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Two years and north of 70k, or Two months and less than 20k?
Maybe separation wasn't your choice but how you do it is your choice. 👇 Mediation cost a fraction of lawyers fees. Mediation and...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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It usually starts when my ex calls me out of the blue...
She says something, and I can feel the volcano inside me. 👇 She is my most triggering person in the world. It's like she's pushing all...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Going through separation? If you spend your time sitting on the couch. drinking. smoking. Read this:
I know what's it like: - You don't get to see your kids. - You were let go, dismissed, dumped. - After all these years of doing what's...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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I know how you feel. I know why you avoid sharing what's happening. 👇
Stuck in denial. Feeling shame and fear. This is limbo land. "On the fence" land. Where no change is happening. This is where you're...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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I didn't use to love myself. Here's how I acted.. 👇
Didn't put my wants and needs as top priority Blamed myself /my ex /the system Didn't admit I need to change Used excuses for my...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Many men going through life show love to everyone but themselves.
I was the same. My self love was in last priority. Now I show love to myself. 👇 This is how I show myself love: I take time to exercise...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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Divorce Cowboy Podcast episode #13: James's story
What's it like "being on the fence", why we believe "others have it all" and being single after separation. 👇 In this episode, James, a...
Tamir Berkman
Jun 30, 20221 min read
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How can I support you in moving forward?
We all know there's a big problem out there. Men are not handling separation very well. Off course we don't! Separation is an emotional...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 16, 20221 min read
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Be one of the 1% - Get support now!
It's heart-breaking. So many families, so many kids, so many men are suffering needlessly going through bitter divorce process. It...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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The Separation Survival Journey - Day 5
Separation is full of drama: The egos, the blame game, the shouting, the fights. 👇 Drama is a toxic habit which only bring more misery...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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The Separation Survival Journey - Day 4
I didn’t realise what separation was until it happened to me. I thought that getting separated means not being with your partner...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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The Separation Survival Journey - Day 3
During the early days of my separation, I went into a spiral. I was drinking and smoking as if I wanted to die. 👇 While this is...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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The Separation Survival Journey - Day 2
Telling my parents about my separation was hard. I felt such shame. 👇 But it was so good to get their support. Telling mates helped to...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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The Separation Survival Journey - Day 1
My separation flooded me with emotions. Overwhelmed by fear, anger, sadness, shame, and guilt, I've tried to numb them down with scotch...
Tamir Berkman
Mar 4, 20221 min read
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Dealing with sadness...
My separation was full of sadness, and I hated it. It was there, just living in my stomach, weighing me down and killing me softly. So, I...
Tamir Berkman
Dec 22, 20211 min read
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